Perfect your skills

Oral sex is one of the most intimate things a couple can do but for many people it can be difficult to know exactly how to achieve the best feelings and results.

If you want to make your man putty in your hands then you need to know the secret to mind-blowing blow jobs and our guide has some great tips that are sure to please.

1. Experiment with taste & texture

Some women don’t like the taste of going downstairs and if you’re not enjoying yourself then your man will know. To make sure you both have the best time possible, consider using flavoured or textured condoms that guarantee top pleasure.

You can also experiment with flavoured lubes and body paint if you really want to enjoy better sex.

2. Vary the pace

Many men achieve the best enjoyment from blow jobs when a regular rhythm is set but that doesn’t mean you can’t vary the pace. Start slow before building speed gradually and easing off again to tease and tantalise him.

There is nothing wrong with taking breaks either so if you need a rest then why not stroke him with your hands while kissing, licking and nibbling at his legs or tummy?

3. Hit the right spot

If you want to know how to give a good blow job then the first thing you need to know is where on your man’s body is the most sensitive. When heading downstairs, it’s important to realise that the shaft isn’t necessarily the most sensitive part (although he’ll still love plenty of action along here).

As well as bringing your mouth up and down his whole penis make sure you hit the right spots by using your teeth, lips and tongue to gently stimulate the head of his penis. Kissing his inner thighs, buttocks, testicles and the skin in between his penis and anus will also improve his pleasure.

Use your tongue to gently stimulate the head of his penis

4. Use your hands too

A great blow job doesn’t just have to rely on your mouth so get hands-on. This a great way to give yourself a break if you find your jaw is tiring and your lad won’t complain if you momentarily pause action with one part of your body be resume with another.

If your man is on the larger side then you may find that holding the bottom of his penis will make it easier for you to manage and prevent gagging – your guy might be aroused by the odd gagging sensation but it won’t make things enjoyable for you if it happens too often.

Reaching your hand round and touching the delicate skin between his penis and rectum or playing with his testicles while going down on him can also enhance leave him in ecstasy.

5. Be relaxed

Finally, remember that whether you are giving your guy a blow job as part of foreplay or just to treat him then you need to be relaxed and comfortable. You should never engage in sexual activity unless it’s what you both want and discussing what you like and don’t like beforehand can be particularly beneficial.

This is especially important when it comes to the topic of whether to spit or swallow.

If you don’t want to swallow then make sure your guy knows this so that he can withdraw in time and discuss what other options there are – such as letting him ejaculate on another part of your body – to keep you both happy.