This year, the 16th September marked a very important date on the calendar - Wife Appreciation Day. And what better way is there to show your spouse how much she means to you than by giving her the best orgasm of her life?

What is wife appreciation day?

Celebrated on the third Sunday in September, the history of Wife Appreciation Day is a little obscure. Although the intention of the event is well-known - to show gratitude and thanks for all the great things that wives do for their spouses - it is thought to have originally been developed as a substitute holiday for Mother's Day which was celebrated by married women who did not have children.

Gifts including jewellery and flowers are often given to wives on this day but that isn't the only treat you can spoil her with. To really show her how much she means to you, why not give her the greatest gift of all: an orgasm?

Sex toys to help pleasure your wife

Sex tips often recommend using sex toys to help a woman achieve orgasm so why not start here? It's important that you discuss this with your wife first and choose toys that she will be comfortable using and thus avoid any embarrassing or uncomfortable moments.

Vibrators are one of the most common sex toys used to help achieve female arousal and orgasm but they aren't only for independent play. You can introduce them to your lovemaking session and help your wife achieve total pleasure by hitting all the right spots.

If you really want to treat her to a special experience, and you're both comfortable with the idea, then you can even use vibrators, dildos or other phallic toys to stimulate other parts of her body while penetrating her with your penis. It's up to you to decide between yourselves how this will work but the stimulation of multiple areas at the same time can really help to bring your girl to climax.

Other ways to help your wife have a great orgasm

A great orgasm for a woman isn't just about physical stimulation, there is an emotional part to it as well. Sensual touching, such as a sexy massage or playful biting, can work wonders and focusing on erogenous zones such as the neck, nipples and earlobes can also help get her in the mood.

A great orgasm for a woman isn't just about physical stimulation, there is an emotional part to it as well.

Remember to tell your wife how much you love and want her to enhance her desire and confidence and make her feel more comfortable and relaxed.

Finally, remember to locate the all important G-spot for deep, penetrative pleasure while also stimulating the clitoris for instant satisfaction. Sex positions that allow you to work both others at once are a sure-fire way to help you lady achieve total pleasure and ensure she gets the gift she deserves on Wife Appreciation Day this year.