By exploring texture and sensation, you and your partner can find new ways to enjoy each other’s bodies...

Sex is all about rhythm – and regular sex means getting into a pleasurable flow. The time you spend together, the more you crave it and the more likely you are to initiate lovemaking.

So connect in a way that is special, exciting and fulfilling, so that you feel loved and desirable. Find a place that feels right and return there. Then move on when you want to keep the intensity.

Build anticipation and excitement by thinking ahead. Allow your mind to wander during the day, imagining your lover’s body. Think about how you’d like to be touched, and how you’d like to touch them. Connect with your partner even though you’re not with them: send messages and talk about what you’d like to do together.

Regular pleasure

Try something new that you think they’d like: vibrating toy Durex’s Endless Touch with its all-over body stimulation that provides an hour of pleasure is a great place to start. Ask how they’d like to be touched, what they’d like to see you do, and when and how they’d like the pleasure to build.

Go slowly to enhance the journey from coolness to warmth.

Take time to massage the gel into your partner’s skin, using long, languid strokes and moving slowly. The thrill of a drawn-out build-up is the ultimate feeling. Use Durex’s Play Sensual Massage 2 in 1 and let yourself be enveloped in the smooth and silky Ylang Ylang fragrance to rouse your senses.

But above all create a regular delivery of pleasure to match your passion. Choose Durex Pleasure Me for extra stimulation from its dotted surface, and ribs at the base of the condom. Durex Fetherlite Ultra Thin Feel is designed for even greater sensitivity. Ensure they arrive in time for your lovemaking with a regular, frequent supply. Share the ardour when the moment is right.