Have Better Sex

Condoms can help men last longer during sex. Tell her you want to give her as much pleasure as you possibly can, and the condom helps.

 

Get Closer

If she says she wants to feel close to you, tell her that being able to relax and know sex is protected will make you feel much closer to her than worrying about the consequences otherwise.

 

Some condoms are designed to make sex even better. Try a different condom if she says she doesn't like the way condoms feel.

 

Be Protected

Should she persist, tell her that you don't want to put her at risk of any STIs. Even if you've only had a blow job from a partner in the past, there's a chance you could have contracted something.

 

If a woman says you're not a man if you don't have unprotected sex, tell her you're mature enough to know how to be sexually responsible - and that makes you much more of a man than simply caving to what she wants. A small amount of women are allergic to latex condoms. However, you can buy latex-free condoms. Keep your condom tin stocked to avoid disappointment.

 

Be Sure

If a woman refuses to let you use a condom, refuse to have sex. Yes, it might be hard (ahem) but there are other ways you can relieve your tension without risking a STI or unplanned pregnancy.

 

Worried you'll get a reputation if you refuse to have sex without a condom? The only women you'll put off are ones who don't value mutual respect. Secure women will see it as an asset - and they are generally a lot more fun to go out with.